O Grave…

“O Grave, where is thy sting”

Well, since you’re asking…

Your sting, O Grave, is in the sad eyes of an aged, white-haired mother

Who should not have to bury her son

Your sting, O Grave, is in the cry of an older brother, plodding through the sugar bush

Undone by grief and loss

Your sting, O Grave, is in an unborn, much anticipated grandbaby

Who won’t be held and playfully teased by Grampa

Your sting, O Grave, is in the ache of adult children

Fast-tracked into a too-soon intimacy with you

Your sting, O Grave, is in a woman seized by your demand of immediate details

As she walks through a “veil of tears”

Your sting, O Grave, is in a beloved produce wheeler ‘n’ dealer, torn from his roadside stand

You’ve left his family holding the bag

Your sting, O Grave, is in son, husband, father, and brother taken, taken much too soon

Leaving a gaping hole

“O Grave, where is thy sting?”

Do you really have to ask?

Really?

Do you have to ask?

A watercolour painted by our daughter Mariah of the homestead where Fred grew up with his parents, grandparents, sister, and brothers.